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www.josevillaphoto.comNewYear’s Eve I received an email from a former UCLA Extension student.
Because of her work schedule, Vanessa missedalmost half the classes and I presumed that she took little, if anything, awayfrom the course (Interpersonal Communications).
And so I was puzzled when I found her email and just presumed she waslooking for a favor, perhaps a recommendation.
Theemail contained just one sentence:
“Thinking of everything I learned in yourclass and feeling oh so very grateful for the positive impact it's been in mylife. . .HAPPY HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!” Iwas beyond surprised but also grateful and happy that I actually had reached aperson whom I had written off.
Ah, life!
Sohere it is a New Year and Vanessa reminds me that the best and happiest way tomake a new beginning is by giving thanks.
What am I thankful for as I stand facing out to 2013?2012 would have been far lessenergizing without the 70 couples who invited me to officiate their wedding.
2012 would have been a dull andconsiderably complacent year without the humor, creativity and generosity ofall my colleagues––event planners and on-site directors, photographers andvideographers, floral designers, musicians, sound techs and even a dovewrangler all of whom I collaborated with each week to create celebrations thathelped cheer and refresh not just the couples but their thousands of family andfriends.
I’m often asked why I officiateweddings.
Well, I can’t imagine
not celebrating wedding ceremonies.
And while it’s not the only thing I do––Ialso teach, write, consult and speak––it is a dimension of my life that givesme life.
Why do I love weddings? The simpleanswer is that I love stories.
Everycouple that comes to me not only
hasa story, every couple
is a story!
I love listening to the myriad waysin which people first met, and I especially enjoy having them tell me the storyof what happened after that first meeting––the story of how they’ve gone aboutcreating a life––often times a life that has surprised them in terms of whereit has taken them and what their newly formed and forming dreams are all about.
Why do I love weddings? Ilove them because I continually stand in awe of people’s courage and daring andhope.
It’s simply not possible to committo another person without courage and daring and hope, which undergird all thatfaith and love.
I love weddings because I love looking at a couple’s guests as theymingle about before the ceremony and then as they sit in anticipation of theceremony’s start.
I love feeling thewave of emotion that ripples throughout the gathering (whether it’s two peopleor two hundred and fifty people).
I look at the guests and I knowthat they know how brutally tough, demanding and too often disappointing lifecan be.
That not every day can be asjoyful as that day, BUT I see the hope and the excitement in their eyes.
They’ve come to root on the couple,
“yes, you can live life in a way that willgive you life, in a way that is meaningful, no matter the mistakes.”I love standing in the middle of somuch hope.
I love witnessing a couple’scourage, no matter how nervous they may be.
The painter Vincent Van Goghbelieved that “The best way to know life is to love manythings.”Weddingshelp me love many things and many people.So,I begin 2013 remembering what I’m grateful for. . .I’m grateful that I’m ableto do and be a part of what I love.
Ieagerly embark on this year of fresh, new stories. . .