photo: moorephotographyIn this month’s issue of VanityFair magazine, fashion designer Marc Newsom offers a profile of fellow men’swear designer Paul Smith. I happen toreally like Paul Smith shirts and so I was curious to learn something about theguy.
It’s an affectionate tribute, butthe real gem from the piece comes in the last sentence. Paul Smith attributes much of his success tothis:
“Every day of my life I witnesssomething that makes me burst out laughing.”
Wow! Now that’s a skill––and it got me thinking. ..
When I first meet with a couple,the conversation is lighthearted and even if there are sticky family issues todiscuss, a couple is usually optimistic. Then, when I meet up with a couple just weeks from their great day, theyoften look haggard!
You don’t need me to remind youjust how mad-crazy and bone-crunching life can be. And planning a wedding, no matter the size,is draining. However, the question I askyou is this: are you laughing?
Are you feeling happy? If not, what’s going on? What’s draining you and what can you and yourpartner actively do to restore your ability to laugh. Getting married is a seriousundertaking. Throwing a wedding is aserious undertaking. And that’s why yougotta laugh! If you’re doing morestressing and more crying than laughing, then something is out of alignment.
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